why me?

i dont reali get why people talk about others?as in create rumours..i mean do they get some kinda thrill out of it?
if they are so itchified as that..why dont they talk about themselves?cuz..nobody is perfect..everyone has their weakness n strength..wats the point..reali..its obvious that they dont lyke u or they jz wana haf the fun of seeing you break down....yeah ok they talk amongst themselves n not spread it but that still does not permit them to violate ur rights n talk crap bout u...wat if someone did it to them?acc that would make it even worst cuz then it will be a challenge between both parties....why create hostilityn hatred?can we all just be normal......=[